The newlywed married a wife with 3 children, the same age as his mother, so he was opposed and ended

The West has many skewed couples: old wife – young husband, older husband – young wife… They despite people’s slander, always love and live a peaceful life even though it’s not very good. fake.

In Soc Trang, there is also an old wife – young husband couple like that! They are Ms. Thu (50 years old) and To (30 years old) – currently have two children together aged 7 and 3 years old. Even though they are not rich or uneducated, they always respect and love each other and overcome all the storms of life together.

“I am a woman with a husband and 3 children. But the marriage was not happy, so I decided to divorce and become a single mother to raise my children.

I work every job to make a living with the hope that God will give me good health, no illness at all. I don’t care about going any further because I still have to worry about the children.” Ms. Thu shared on YouTube channel MT

Some time later, Ms. Thu went to work collecting rice grass for someone who happened to know a guy named To – just over 20 years old. The two chatted intimately like an aunt and grandchild at home. She even taught him how to behave with people around him and how to face difficulties in life.

Gradually, To developed feelings for her sister, changing her way of addressing her from “nephew” to “younger sister”. She doesn’t mind much because she doesn’t care much about addressing people, as long as they respect each other, they can still be close.

“One day, To expressed his love and wanted to take care of me and my three children for the rest of my life. To wants to become a husband, a father, and make up for the hurt I have suffered for a long time. I don’t agree because of differences in age and circumstances.” she recalls.

At this time, To’s mother received news that her son confessed his love to a woman his own age and tried to stop him, unable to accept it. She scolded, chased and beat her son in the hope of “breaking” his wild desire.

“I cried and ran because I had no way to “fight back”. How dare I do anything disrespectful to my mother? I ran to the house to find Thu, asked to stay and expressed my sincere feelings. She was touched and agreed to let me stay here for a while until my mother calmed down and then come back and talk seriously.

Before I could go home, my mother came to see Thu’s mother to have an adult conversation. Mom accepted us to become husband and wife, promising not to stop us anymore. So I have a wife and 3 children at the age of 22.” To shared.

To moved back to live with Thu and her mother in the torn house. Both always encourage them to work hard and one day they will have a good day. Not long after, she became pregnant and gave birth to a beautiful child. Su was overjoyed but felt more responsible.

He decided to leave his hometown to work in Binh Phuoc to have a lot of money to take care of his wife and four children. She is happy that she has finally found a husband who truly loves her mother and children.

After working for a few days, To suddenly had an accident when a machine cut off an arm. When Ms. Thu heard the news, she quickly sent her child to her biological mother and then went to the hospital to take care of her husband for a month. She said she was very shocked but could not give up because her husband really needed her to be there to encourage him.

The day To returned home from the hospital, Ms. Thu decided not to let her husband work far from home. She accepted poverty, afraid that something unfortunate would happen to her husband.

“To bought an old bicycle and woke up every day at 2 a.m. to ride from home to Soc Trang city to sell lottery tickets. As for me, I stay at home and do weeding for others and take care of the children. Life is not prosperous, but the wife has a husband and the children have a father. I am satisfied with my family now even though my family of 7 still lives in a torn house with a dirt floor.”Ms. Thu confided.

As soon as his wife finished speaking, To smiled: “Everyone admires me for riding a bicycle with one hand dozens of miles from home to the city. Some people even said why don’t you let your wife sell lottery tickets, while you stay home and take care of the children. I answered directly that I am a man, the breadwinner of the family, and am not allowed to let my wife and children work hard.

After I finished talking, they understood and bought lottery tickets. Usually I sell 150-200 copies/day, enough to cover food and drink for my children.”

Referring to the relationship between stepfather and stepchild, To happily said that Ms. Thu’s three stepchildren always consider him as their biological father. On the contrary, he loves the children like his own blood.

“Even the relationship between Thu and her mother is peaceful. Occasionally my mother would run over to the house to visit her grandchildren and give her some meat or beans. She was very happy because she was finally recognized by her mother-in-law as her daughter-in-law.”I said.