His daughter got married far away and couldn’t come home during the last Tet holiday, so the father in Jiangxi, China, decided to take the train to the city 1,200km away from his home to visit his daughter. Unexpectedly, when he arrived, he was not welcomed by his son-in-law, and his daughter was absent-minded and did not dare to protect and take care of her father. Sadly, the father left. When he left, no one greeted or said goodbye, making the father’s heart feel cold and sad.
Traveling thousands of kilometers to visit his daughter, the father did not expect to be treated coldly by his son-in-law.
According to the man, he loves his daughter very much and has spoiled her since childhood without lacking anything. At the age of getting married, even though his daughter wanted to get married far away, he agreed and took care of everything carefully, not letting her think at a disadvantage.
Knowing that his child would be busy and unable to visit home during Tet, the man decided to take the train to visit his child. Sitting on the train was so painful that I finally reached my daughter’s house. Unexpectedly, although he enthusiastically visited his son’s family, the man was not welcomed by his son-in-law. Every meal was treated coldly and indifferently by his son-in-law. Even if he tried to start a conversation to dispel the awkward atmosphere, nothing would change.
Worth mentioning, even though she saw her biological father being treated like that, her daughter remained silent, not daring to stand up to protect him, and could only bow her head and pretend not to see. According to her daughter, because she only stays at home and takes care of the children, doesn’t work, and has no income, she doesn’t dare to say anything when she sees her husband treating her father indifferently.
After a week of this, the father felt so disappointed and heartbroken that he decided to leave. When he was ready to leave, no one came to see him off to the train, making his father bitterly think of the saying: “A daughter getting married is like a bowl of water being thrown away.”
Immediately after the father’s share was posted, it quickly attracted the attention of the public. Most netizens criticized the unintentional behavior of their daughter and son-in-law.
– “The problem is not ability, not having money or not, but character, personality”,
– “The son-in-law is indeed to blame, but the daughter is much more to blame! It’s my biological father, how can he be so cruel?”…
Life after marriage is very expensive, stay away from these 4 types of men
Patriarchal men
Patriarchal men always think that they are the most important person, it is difficult for anyone to shake them. In married life, too, they always require women to comply with what they say and think.
If you still want to marry this guy, you must learn to endure and accept it. Even changing myself to suit him.
A man who only talks about himself is a man who thinks he is number 1 and doesn’t really think about others. Illustration
Men only know themselves
“When we were dating, most of the time we talked he only talked about himself. At that time, it wasn’t difficult to listen to his stories but now we are married and have children.” , I also have many things to say, so please listen to those too!” – Shared by a 32 year old housewife.
A man who only talks about himself is a man who thinks he is number 1 and doesn’t really think about others. Marriage and having children are only easier when combined with a partner. If he doesn’t listen and worry about marital problems with you, you should really rethink this relationship.
Men are not trustworthy
If you want to build a happy life, your relationships must be of quality. Not only friends and career companions, but most importantly your life partner, you must choose a trustworthy person.
The sign of a trustworthy person is that they always keep their promises, their words are always followed by actions and they don’t make empty promises. You can see that, no matter the relationship in life, the person who keeps trust is always trustworthy.
If a friend is not trustworthy, you can stop playing. But if you live with a dishonest, unreliable husband, you cannot always “change your husband”.
If a man doesn’t keep his promises time and time again, it means he doesn’t value you. Someone who really cares about you, he won’t waste your time waiting. Especially after marriage, in married life there are many situations that arise and pressure to bear on the shoulders. Maintaining trust is a way for two people to connect and rely on each other.
Of course, during the time of getting to know each other, events happen and you can understand this man through the way he behaves. If they only think about themselves, don’t care about your feelings, and only think about their own gains and losses, you should be wary of that type of man.
Men place all responsibility on you
If he thinks everything he does is because of you, for example: “I had to quit the job I like because of you”, or “It was only because of you that I argued with my parents”… then you shouldn’t get emotional too quickly. .
A guy who loves you must first be responsible for himself, not blaming anyone. If he likes a certain job, he must do it in a way that makes you see it as a job that is really worth doing for him. Or with his parents, he fights for happiness for himself, not just for you.
You don’t want to suddenly have all the responsibility dumped on you like this? It’s like he’s burdening you too much and implicitly giving you the message: “Only for you, I did that, so you have to be responsible for anything in the future.” Being with this guy, you will feel very tired.
Men often underestimate you
Men always have high self-esteem and most of them always want to be admired, many even want their other half to “worship” them. There’s nothing wrong with wanting to be appreciated, but if just because he wants to always be in an excellent position, he underestimates you and constantly denies you, then stay away from such a man.
For example, when you achieve some success at work, he will assume that you relied on luck. When you share your dreams, wanting to live an active life and work hard to make money, he says you are overestimating your abilities.
Instead of encouraging and healing or bringing warmth to you, he just wants to assert his talented position, making you completely dependent on him, which is not a good choice for you to trust. whole life.
People often say “It takes a long time to know a good horse” and time can also tell a person’s heart. Whether or not a man treats you sincerely and with care can be understood by paying attention to the smallest actions.
Men are lazy
If he is a dude who has never touched anything since childhood and always says he only likes you in the kitchen and cooking delicious meals for him, you also need to consider.
When you’re in love, you may feel extremely happy when you cook for him, but are you sure you won’t be upset when you see him finish eating and put his feet up to watch a movie while he leaves you struggling with the dishes and the messy kitchen? ?
If he often says “I’m a man, I’m afraid to do those things”, then be alert and rational. Surely you don’t want to be the only one busy cooking, cleaning the house or taking care of your children after getting married?
Men always make excuses for their actions
In situations that make you upset, he always finds good excuses that you feel convinced by. Until you discover the truth that he can’t come to you or do the work you asked him to do just because he’s busy with his own work or because of his parents.
So my advice to you is don’t get married in a hurry, wait until he’s mature enough and then it’s not too late to get married.
